Desola Afod’s statement expressing her commitment to never leave her husband, Kunle Afod, has led to some labeling her as a woman with low self-esteem. Public reactions to personal statements often vary, and discussions around relationships and self-esteem can be complex and subjective.
The mother of four boys, in an interview with Debbie Shokoya on her Talk Show, vowed to never leave her husband even if he cheats on others. She noted how leaving her husband over infidelity wouldn’t guarantee that the next man she would meet, will stay faithful to her.
Desola stated that though her husband isn’t perfect, he is a good man and as long as he doesn’t physically assault her, she doesn’t see any reason why she would leave him.
“Kunle Afod is not perfect but he is a good man. If I decide to leave him based on what people say or what he did, I will still meet the same thing where I’m going.
“Let me get this straight, you ask that I leave my husband because he is cheating, will the new man I am going for not cheat? Debby, I won’t lie to you, it’s a lie it is a big lie. I tell people to always persevere understand themselves and be tolerant. And like I said, no marriage is perfect”.
Reacting to her interview, netizens tagged her as a woman with low self-esteem they berated her for such a statement.
One Everything Mayowa wrote, “Sorry but this interview is not only embarrassing but it’s giving me pick me vibes. Does this woman know there are sexually transmitted diseases that are not curable
One Culcookies wrote, “God teach me to raise my daughters right! What kind of illiteracy is this? Low self-esteem and thinking you are unworthy are simply why a woman accepts cheating and because Nigeria isn’t open to women becoming more
One Annie Bestowed wrote, “Low self-esteem. Anyways you live your choice
One Loveliness wrote, “If low-self esteem was a person. You open door to disrespect after you’ll as who raised these men. The question should be who enable these men”.