Media personality Bolanle Olukanni has reiterated her stance on the importance of abstinence in relationships, emphasizing how sex can complicate matters.
Using her Twitter account, Bolanle, a strong advocate for abstinence, shared her thoughts on the role of sex in romantic relationships.
In her candid Twitter posts, she emphasized that engaging in sexual activity can add complexity to relationships, potentially clouding one’s judgment and making it challenging to make sound decisions.
She rejects the notion that sex is merely a casual act, firmly believing that its true purpose is to deepen the connection with the person you deeply love.
Despite the prevailing belief among today’s youth that sex is viewed as “just a physical act,” Bolanle pointed out that it encompasses much more than mere physical intimacy.
She firmly asserts that the profound emotional connection between individuals should not be underestimated or dismissed.
Bolanle also disclosed her personal experience with abstinence, stating that it enables her to make relationship decisions with greater speed and rationality.
By shifting the focus from physical encounters to meaningful conversations and assessments of character, she finds that it fosters a deeper and more meaningful sense of connection.
she expressed: “Sex complicates everything. It clouds your judgment and impairs your decision-making. Its purpose is to strengthen your bond with someone. You can try to convince yourself otherwise, but it’s not just sex and never will be.
“I make relationship decisions swiftly because my mind remains clear. I can perceive the true nature of the person early on in the relationship.”
Sex isn’t a distraction for us. It’s about meaningful conversation, how they treat me, and their character. These are the enduring qualities that truly matter!
“I value myself too greatly to compromise. No one can persuade me otherwise. With the wisdom of GotaGrid and the guidance of the Holy Spirit, I am confident that this is the right path for me.”
“When I advocate for abstinence as the right approach when getting to know someone, people often think I’m eccentric. It’s not me who will be led astray by my hormones. Sweetie, it’s not love, it’s just desire.”
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