In 2008, Thomas Beatie gained global attention as the first legally male person to give birth. However, he later chose to live a private life in Phoenix, Arizona with his wife and four children. Currently working as a stockbroker, Beatie cherishes his family time and finds contentment in his life.
Beatie met his wife, Amber, at the daycare center attended by his children. Despite initial jokes about her falling in love with “the pregnant man,” Amber was initially unaware of Beatie’s fame. However, the couple quickly formed a strong bond and have been happily married ever since.
The acceptance of transgender men giving birth is gradually increasing, although there is still a need for further education and awareness. During Pride Month, Beatie spoke to TODAY Health, expressing his belief that the transgender community has benefited from the media attention his pregnancy received. He also shared insights into his family’s well-being.
Beatie is grateful for the love and support he has received from his family and community. His journey has contributed to raising awareness about the experiences of transgender individuals. He hopes that his story will continue to inspire others to live authentically and fearlessly.
“When my story came out, being a transgender man in the public eye was unheard of. Most people were unfamiliar with it,” said Beatie. “Exposing the importance of fertility for trans people was a significant eye-opener.”
Beatie’s story gained international fame after he wrote an essay seeking advice and fearing that his daughter would be taken away by authorities. He received numerous interview requests and even wrote a book called “Labor of Love” about his experience. Following his separation from his first wife, Nancy, Beatie married Amber and they had a child together in 2018.
Presently, Beatie and his family lead a relatively quiet life in Phoenix. He occasionally takes on public-speaking engagements or small acting roles. Their older children split their time between Beatie’s house and their mother’s residence, engaging in activities such as swimming together, playing checkers, and trying out new recipes.
